Which Guna is Important for Marriage?

For a successful married life matching of qualities between husband and wife is very important. These qualities are matched through Kundali. Kundali of any person is made on the basis of his birth date, time, and place. This Kundali is made by looking at the position of planets and stars at the time of birth. Then at the time of marriage, the Kundali of the boy and the girl is matched. From the marital point of view, Kundali matching is done on these five important bases- Kundali study Bhaav matching, Ashtkoot matching, Mangal Dosh consideration, and Dasha consideration. In north India, Ashtkoot matching is popular for Gun matching. One of the important aspects to consider is the consideration of the eight important kutus of Ashtkoot matching. Ashtkoot matching means matching of the bride and groom in eight ways is known as of the bride and groom in eight ways is known as Guna Milan.

The Eight Guans and their Importance

The guna Milan system evaluates eight specific gunas, each focusing on a different aspect of marital compatibility:

1. Varna (1 point): Its purpose is to assess spiritual compatibility and ego balance. Matches the spiritual incline and nature of the individuals. Varna is divided into four categories based on caste (Brahmin, Kshatriya, Vaishya, Shudra). Compatibility ensures mutual respect and understanding of each other’s spiritual goals.
2. Vashya (2 points): its purpose is to evaluate control and influence within the relationship. Determines whether one partner can exert undue control over the other. A good match in Vashya ensures mutual cooperation and prevents dominance or submissiveness from damaging the relationship.
3. Tara (3 points): its purpose is to check the compatibility for health and well-being. Matches the birth stars of both individuals to ensure physical and mental harmony. A mismatch could indicate health issues or a lack of vitality in the relationship.
4. Yoni (4 points): its purpose is to evaluate physical compatibility and sexual chemistry. Matches the sexual temperaments and preferences of the partners which are essential for a fulfilling marital life. A mismatch here could lead to dissatisfaction or lack of intimacy.
5. Graha Maitri (5 points): its purpose is to focus on the emotional compatibility of the planetary lords of the Moon signs of the bride and groom. A strong score indicates shared interests, values, and better emotional bonding.
6. Gana (6 points): its purpose is to assess behavioral and temperamental compatibility. Categorizes individuals into three types- Deva (divine), Manushya (human), and Pakshasa (Demonic). This guna ensures that the behavioral patterns of the partners are aligned to avoid frequent clashes.
7. Bhakoot (7 points): It indicates financial stability and progeny. Focuses on the Moon sign compatibility of the couple. A high Bhakoot score promises prosperity, success, and a stable married life. It also affects childbirth prospects.
8. Nadi (8 points): its purpose is to assess biological compatibility for healthy offspring. The most critical Guna, Nadi, focuses on genetic and health compatibility. It ensures that the couple can have healthy children and prevents genetic disorders. A mismatch in Nadi is considered highly inauspicious.

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The most Important Guns in Marriage

In Vedic astrology, the concept of Guna Milan is integral to assessing compatibility between two individuals for marriage. It involves the matching of 36 Gunas based on the birth charts of the bride and groom. Among these Gunas all are essential but some have more critical purposes in determining the success and harmony of a marital union. The most important Guna Nadi, holds the highest weight (8 points) and is considered the most critical for marriage. Its importance lies in its connection to:

There are three types of Nadi- Adya Nadi, Madhya Nadi, and Antya Nadi. The Adya nadi of Aswini, Ardra, Punarvasu, East Phaguni. Hasta, Jyeshtha, Moola, Shatbhisha, East Bhadra. Bharni, Mrigsura, Pushya, North Phalguni, Chitra, Anuradha, East Bhadrista, North Bhadra the Madhya Nadi. Kritika, Rohini, Shlesha, Magha, Swati, Vishakha, U. Sha., Shravana, REvati are the Antya Nadi. If the bride and groom have the same Nadi, then Nadi dosha will occur. It is considered auspicious if the Nadis of both are different.

Why we do Nadi Matching

Nadi is related to progeny. What will be the outcome of the physical relationship between the two depends on Nadi. Blood flow and energy in the body have special importance. The energy of both is matched through Nadi. For a happy and complete married life, the Nadi of the husband and wife should be different. Its importance lies in its connection to:

• Health and genetics: Ensures the couple does not share the same Nadi. Which could be childbirth or genetic abnormalities.
• Progeny: protects the family lineage and ensures the health of future generations.
• Balance of energies: Aligns the physical and spiritual energies of the partners, ensuring a balanced life.

What is Nadi Dosha

People who marry without matching their Nadi get affected by Nadi Doasha. Due to this, they have to face many kinds of unexpected problems. There are ups and downs in married life. Due to Nadi dosh, there is a possibility of death of either the bride or the groom. If there is Nadi Dosh in the horoscope then the coming generation will be weak and there is a high possibility that no child will be born.

Remedies for Nadi Dosha

A Nadi Dosha (mismatch) is often seen as a deal breaker in traditional matchmaking, although remedies can sometimes mitigate its effects:

• To reduce the effect of Nadi Dosha, one should donate a cow or gold to a Brahmin. Apart from this one should donate food equal to one’s weight on the anniversary. Also one should donate food and clothes to Brahmins.
• To remove the Nadi Dosha, the Mahamrityunjaya Mantra should be chanted.
• Nadi Dosh nivaran puja should be done.
• In particular, reciting Sri Sukta on Thursday can help pacify Nadi Dosha.

Conclusion

Each guna in kundli matching plays a vital role in determining compatibility for marriage, with Nadi being the most critical for biological and genetic reasons. However, a balanced score across all Gunas is essential for a harmonious and successful marital life. Understanding the purpose and importance of each Guna helps couples approach marriage with greater awareness and respect for astrological traditions. To match your kundli with your spouse, consult the best astrologer for Kundli Matching.